A divorce recognises, by law, the termination of a relationship and the end of legal responsibilities partners owe to one another. It often involves making arrangements in relation to property, children and spousal maintenance.

Divorcing a partner is a major life event and can be a stressful and emotional time for you and your family. It is therefore critical to choose the right divorce lawyer to represent you and guide you through this process.

1.  Assess your needs

Most divorce lawyers have strengths in different areas. When choosing a divorce lawyer, you should always ask yourself – what is it that you require them to do for you? Obtaining a divorce order does not automatically determine issues relating to property, maintenance or children, therefore it is important to consider the impact your divorce may have on these aspects of your relationship.

Where there are many legal facets to your separation, you will benefit from a legal representative with experience in Family Law. It is also important to consider how you want the process resolved. There are collaborative alternatives to litigation, such as mediation, in which you have more autonomy to determine the outcome, and the role of a family lawyer can vary. Such options are available and can be applied depending on the facts and circumstances of your matter. However, if an amicable agreement between you and your former partner cannot be reached, you may need to consider engaging a family lawyer to assist you in commencing or responding to court proceedings.

2.  Do your research

Understanding the advice you are provided with is essential and key. The core principles of advice can be a good start and the Federal Circuit and Family Law Court of Australia has an online resource that provides an essential guide, however there is no substitute for personalised legal advice.

Once you have a basic understanding of divorce law, you will be better equipped to find a family lawyer best suited to successfully navigating your matter. Factors to consider when assessing whether a lawyer is right for you include:

• Level of skill and experience;
• Recommendations from trusted people;
• The values of the firm the lawyer works within; and
• Any initial information regarding their approach and communication.

Your research should assist you in compiling a list of lawyers you can contact. It is recommended that you do not limit yourself to researching one law firm only.

3.  Prepare for the initial consultation

The next step is to arrange an initial consultation with the lawyers on your shortlist. This will enable you to meet in person and give you the opportunity to ask revealing questions about their fees and their approach to communication with clients. At Etheringtons Solicitors, we offer a discounted rate for an initial consultation, during which you may receive preliminary advice and you will have the opportunity to better understand who your lawyer is and how they can work with you.

It is important that you feel comfortable with your lawyer as they will be assisting you through a vulnerable stage of your life. Therefore, personality and ease of communication are key factors to consider.

How Etheringtons Solicitors can help

Etheringtons Solicitors can assist with your separation and divorce. If you need further advice or assistance with Family Law matters, please contact one of our experienced family lawyers on (02) 9963 9800 or via our contact page.